Finding Myself
I've had this conversation with a couple people this week. Not just any people either. Truly, I think it'd be too much of a conversation for that level of randomness, but with people who hold a piece of my heart. They know who they are. They will be reading this. I love each of you for different reasons and the same reason. You should know that. I try to tell you. Actually I have. In my way. But, now you know, and well, so do the others reading this! Those people and their advice? Simply - Find myself. That's the hard part after divorce. Finding yourself. It's not so much redesigning yourself, but the honest to goodness finding of yourself. In the almost 12 years I was with my ex I think I lost a bit of myself. Now I'm not going to go down that line of stinkin' thinkin'. It isn't right for a couple of reasons. First, it was what it was. Dysfunction and all. ...